[core] Allow AUTO_LOAD to receive the component config to determine if it should load other components (#10961)

Co-authored-by: Copilot <175728472+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: J. Nick Koston <nick@home-assistant.io>

tests/unit_tests/fixtures/auto_load_dynamic.yaml

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+esphome:
+  name: test-device
+
+esp32:
+  board: esp32dev
+
+# Test component with dynamic AUTO_LOAD
+test_component:
+  enable_logger: true
+  enable_api: false

tests/unit_tests/fixtures/auto_load_static.yaml

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+esphome:
+  name: test-device
+
+esp32:
+  board: esp32dev
+
+# Test component with static AUTO_LOAD
+test_component: